People should be able to deal with things on their own. 

Nothing is farther from the truth! We all need others to lean on at times, and we all desire to be seen and known deeply by another. We may also require a different perspective in order to see ourselves and our situation clearly. While turning to a friend for advice may work in some instances, there are times when all of us could use an unbiased, professional opinion. It takes great courage to admit to yourself that you need help. It takes even more courage to ask another for help. Rather than a sign of weakness, it is a sign of strength when someone wishes to improve his or her life, and has the courage to seek assistance in this process.